Upgrades to slog v3 which includes a small, but backward incompatible API change to the acceptible call arguments when logging. This change allows us to verify via compile time type checking that arguments are correct and won't cause a panic, as was possible in slog v1, which this replaces (v2 was tagged but never used in coder/coder).
It also updates dependencies that also use slog and were updated.
I've left the `aibridge` dependency as a commit SHA, under the assumption that the team there (cc @pawbana @dannykopping ) will tag and update the dependency soon and on their own schedule.
Other dependencies, I pushed new tags.
Previously we were configuring using the display name of the user, which
may contain spaces, special characters, and isn't unique. This was
always supposed to be the username.
Addresses #14734.
This PR wires up `tunnel.go` to a `tailnet.Conn` via the new `/tailnet` endpoint, with all the necessary controllers such that a VPN connection can be started, stopped and inspected via the CoderVPN protocol.
Spike Curtis