Upgrades to slog v3 which includes a small, but backward incompatible API change to the acceptible call arguments when logging. This change allows us to verify via compile time type checking that arguments are correct and won't cause a panic, as was possible in slog v1, which this replaces (v2 was tagged but never used in coder/coder).
It also updates dependencies that also use slog and were updated.
I've left the `aibridge` dependency as a commit SHA, under the assumption that the team there (cc @pawbana @dannykopping ) will tag and update the dependency soon and on their own schedule.
Other dependencies, I pushed new tags.
Fixes https://github.com/coder/coder/issues/18350
I attempted the route of relying on just the session env vars, in hopes
that this issue was fixed in Toolbox and the process name matching was
no longer need, but it was not a fruitful endeavor and it seems to be
using the same connection logic as it did in gateway, just with new
binary and flag names.
Spike Curtis