Upgrades to slog v3 which includes a small, but backward incompatible API change to the acceptible call arguments when logging. This change allows us to verify via compile time type checking that arguments are correct and won't cause a panic, as was possible in slog v1, which this replaces (v2 was tagged but never used in coder/coder).
It also updates dependencies that also use slog and were updated.
I've left the `aibridge` dependency as a commit SHA, under the assumption that the team there (cc @pawbana @dannykopping ) will tag and update the dependency soon and on their own schedule.
Other dependencies, I pushed new tags.
Refactors our use of `slogtest` to instantiate a "standard logger" across most of our tests. This standard logger incorporates https://github.com/coder/slog/pull/217 to also ignore database query canceled errors by default, which are a source of low-severity flakes.
Any test that has set non-default `slogtest.Options` is left alone. In particular, `coderdtest` defaults to ignoring all errors. We might consider revisiting that decision now that we have better tools to target the really common flaky Error logs on shutdown.