Previously the in-process aibridge daemon and the enterprise aibridgeproxy daemon both snapshotted their provider routing once at boot. Any `ai_providers` or `ai_provider_keys` mutation required a restart for either to pick it up.
Add an `ai_providers_changed` pubsub channel that the CRUD handlers publish on after Create / Update / Delete. Both daemons subscribe:
- **aibridged** rebuilds its `[]aibridge.Provider` snapshot via `BuildProviders` and swaps it into the pool atomically. Inflight requests keep serving against the bridge they already acquired; new acquires build against the new snapshot. Per-provider construction errors stay scoped to the offending row.
- **aibridgeproxyd** rebuilds its routing snapshot from `GetAIProviders` and swaps the host→provider map atomically. The MITM listener picks up new providers without restart.
DB read for aibridgeproxyd uses the existing `AsAIProviderMetadataReader` subject for routing-only access.