Closes https://github.com/coder/coder/issues/21360
A few considerations/notes:
- I've kept the number of conns to 10 in all other places, except coderd
- which uses the config value
- I opted to also make idle conns configurable; the greater the delta
between max open and max idle, the more connection churn
- Postgres maintains a [_process_ per
connection](https://www.postgresql.org/docs/current/connect-estab.html),
contrary to what the comment said previously
- Operators should be able to tune this, since process churn can
negatively affect OS scheduling
- I've set the value to `"auto"` by default so it's not another knob one
_has to_ twiddle, and sets max idle = max conns / 3
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Signed-off-by: Danny Kopping <danny@coder.com>
Danny Kopping