Upgrades to slog v3 which includes a small, but backward incompatible API change to the acceptible call arguments when logging. This change allows us to verify via compile time type checking that arguments are correct and won't cause a panic, as was possible in slog v1, which this replaces (v2 was tagged but never used in coder/coder).
It also updates dependencies that also use slog and were updated.
I've left the `aibridge` dependency as a commit SHA, under the assumption that the team there (cc @pawbana @dannykopping ) will tag and update the dependency soon and on their own schedule.
Other dependencies, I pushed new tags.
Fixes#13139
Using a bare channel to signal dependent goroutines means that we can only signal success, not failure, which leads to deadlock if we fail in a way that doesn't cause the whole `apiConnRoutineManager` to tear down routines.
Instead, we use a new object called a `checkpoint` that signals success or failure, so that dependent routines get unblocked if the routine they depend on fails.
Spike Curtis